I didn't get much response from the first one, but that won't deter me from going on about issues that I care about, that move me.

The next controversial topic is ... sexism.

I despise it. It comes in about a thousand different forms, from male to female, to female to male, to male to male and female to female, just to start.

Any assumption made on gender is sexism. That she's a "slut" or that he's a "cocksman" (said in honor) is XXX her a "dyke" because she won't with you...is wrong.

Sexism is . It's been an issue in the US Presidential campaign. It's not out there, like racism. Some person said to Hillary Clinton, "Iron my shirt, bitch."

Had that person said, to Barack Obama, "shine my shoes, ....." the outcry would have been, deservedly, incredible. That it was not for a sexist comment says volumes about life in the US.

Sexism covers the full realm, and it always bothers me. From Lesbians assuming that all men are evil to gay men not liking "girls." From straight men hating women, and women assuming that men are just out for sex.

Go on. React. The fun can begin.

Well, a friend of mine encouraged me to sign up here and play around, and I'm certianly enjoying THAT side of it.

She's also asked me to put out some thoughts and see about generating some honest and open discussion about male sexuality.

Once we all get beyond the idea that the basic male perspective is, "Yes, please. More, please..." there are real issues to be explored.

So, the topic tonight is: All Males Are, To One Degree Or Another, Submissive.

Now, I can hear all the thoughts going off, all the angry flames I'll get, but stop, think before you do. How many guys have said, "Yes, dear," to those earrings you know you can't afford? That's just one side of it. Admit it, guys. The fear when she gets out the strapon is NOT anything more than the fear of explaining it to your buddies.

So, before you yell that I'm gay, trust that I'll just delete those comments. If there are intelligent perspectives to be added, male or female, I welcome and encourage that discussion, and hope (though with much fear) that it can lead to some real eye-opening moments - for men AND women.